TikToker says she slapped BF, threw things at him after he didn't defend her when friends called her crazy
Ivan Lim
TNP
Sept 8, 2025
A TikTok video of a woman boasting that she "crash(ed out" and physically abused her boyfriend has gone viral with netizens slamming her behaviour.
Singapore TikToker crazylilcrybaby starts by saying that when friends see her bruises, they ask, "OMG, who hit you?"
She then says the real question is, "Which man did I hit today?"
Stressing that she is not proud of what she has done, the woman claims she was triggered when she looked at the messages on her boyfriend's iPad and noticed he did not defend her when his friends called her "crazy".
When they met the next day, the first thing she did was slap him. While seated in his car, she splashed soft drink from a bottle on him and all over the car's interior.
She proceeded to hurl anything she could get her hands on inside the car at his face, including things she found in the glove compartment.
"In text, it never really showed that he defended (me)... if you think I'm crazy, imma show you, imma prove you right, I'm crazy," she says in the 4 min 43 sec video.
She adds that she would have shared his private messages had he not logged out of a messaging app on the iPad. Towards the end of the clip, she explains why she will not hold her peace and demands validation for her "crash out".
While the original post has since been deleted, a copy of it shared on Sept 5 had already garnered close to 200,000 views, 5,080 reactions and 230 comments at press time.
The video has also been shared in multiple posts on Reddit, such as one titled, "girl hoots bf and shamelessly posts about it?"
Many netizens agreed with her moniker - that she was indeed crazy.
"Oh, they make crazy & delusional in all flavors. I see now," said one Redditor.
"His friends call me crazy and stuff - I can see why they did," said another.
Yet another called out her lack of remorse: "This is physical abuse confession and also no remorse. Can report her ... no matter the gender abuse is abuse."
Several netizens said she seemed proud of her actions despite claiming the opposite at the start of the video. "She say she not proud but she sounds so proud," said one TikTok user.
Other netizens were just there for the spectacle. "Just treat it as tea, it's more entertaining than mediacorp lol," said a Redditor.
And there were those who felt sorry for the boyfriend. "The patience that guy has to not fight back," said one TikToker.
"That dude's self restraint is amazing. that prolly saved him too because she would have lied and say he beat her first if he retaliated," said another.
Many advised the boyfriend to leave her. "Well yup shes crazy. But if the bf didn't dump her already, hes even more crazy. Sooo... well…" said one Redditor.
Several TikTokers with sizeable followings of their own responded to the now infamous Crash Out video with videos of their own, some of which have garnered more than 300,000 views.
Dewey Choo explained that what the girl did was a tantrum and not a "crash out".
Claraventuss was not OK with domestic violence, giving advice to the original poster to seek help in this video.
And dezthedin0 says in her video response that she thought the whole thing was all a joke.
Crazylilcrybaby did not respond to queries from The New Paper.
